Anal Sex Basics

Curious about anal play but not sure where to begin? Sex educator Carlyle Jansen makes the whole subject feel approachable in Anal Sex Basics, a warm, judgment-free guide that starts at the very beginning and builds from there. She walks you through the essentials — choosing the right lube, finding positions that actually work, and the techniques behind fingering, licking, and using toys — then goes further into erotic fantasy and role play for when you're ready to expand. Just as usefully, it covers the parts most guides skip: how to bring anal up with a partner, how to communicate through it, and how to keep everything safe, comfortable, and genuinely fun. A practical, reassuring first read for anyone exploring butt play solo or together.