She Comes First
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She Comes First
Body-safe
$20.00
Sale price
$20.00
Regular price
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Most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris — and in She Comes First, sex therapist Ian Kerner sets out to fix that, one tongue at a time. Part anatomy lesson, part practical playbook, this frank and funny guide reframes oral sex not as foreplay but as the main event, walking readers through the structures of female arousal, the rhythms and pressure that actually work, and a step-by-step approach to building anticipation until she gets there first. It's written for attentive partners of every gender who want to trade guesswork for genuine skill, and it pairs naturally with a good water-based lubricant or a gentle clitoral vibrator when you're ready to put the theory into practice.
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Will anyone know what I ordered?
No. Every order ships in a plain box with no branding, and your statement reads "BL Shop".
Is this body-safe?
We only stock body-safe materials. Anything insertable is fully sanitizable and phthalate-free, and external toys are always phthalate-free. Read what body-safe actually means.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash before and after use with warm water and a toy cleaner or mild soap, dry fully, and store it in a lint-free pouch away from other toys.